I work with my gifts of intuition using tarot cards, pendulum and divine acccess. I often go out alone with my cat, to the desert and commune with the elements to achieve the right mind-set to have the connection we need.
Ask me to look at your specific problem and I will divine an answer for you.
When we get to know each other I will be able to send you sigils and spells you can carry out yourself. They must be performed at the right time and day otherwise they are useless, no one's listening if you don't get the right frequency to the other side! If later you want a power or sex ritual, remember, such ritual you must do with all your intensity and sincerity. Spell-Craft is most and only effective when you perform a ritual with emotion and sincerity. Generate as much emotion as you can by feeling the torment, loss , shame you've endured, hold that emotion, then seriously perform a ritual. I Guarantee this will aid you.