For example, do you keep attracting married men?
Or you end up liking guys who do not like you?
Have guys abused you?
Keep on getting heartbroken?
Your beliefs and emotions are at the core of your experience and by changing your beliefs (e.g. I do not deserve love, I can never meet the right one, etc) or emotions (e.g grief, lovelorn, loneliness, etc), your whole relationships with your intimate other would start to change.
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