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sonja_davis

Tea C

@sonja_davis

Kitchen Conversations: Listening Ear

United States
English
About me
Sometimes you do not need the polished answer. You need someone who hears it all, notices what is unsaid, and tells you the truth with care. I offer warm, witty kitchen conversations grounded in psychology, military service, analytical work, and years in male-dominated spaces as a Black woman. Bring relationships, boundaries, workplace dynamics, transitions, confidence, or the decision you keep circling. These kitchen conversations are judgment-free and non-clinical—not therapy, crisis support, cybersecurity consulting, or career coaching. Real kitchen conversations. No performance required.... Read more

Skills

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sonja_davis
Tea C
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I will listen without judgment and provide perspective if desired
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Work experience

Self_Employed

Self Employed

Full-time • 31 yrs 5 mos

Senior Analyst, Professional Pattern-Spotter & Truth Translator

Oct 2013 - Present • 12 yrs 10 mos

In ordinary language: I have spent years being paid to notice what does not add up, read between the lines, ask inconvenient but useful questions, and turn confusion into something people can actually understand. I have no desire to spend Fiverr sessions recreating my day job. What I do bring is the mind behind the work: strong judgment, discretion, pattern recognition, direct communication, curiosity, emotional steadiness, and a very low tolerance for pretending the obvious problem is not standing in the room. I listen carefully, separate the issue from the noise, and offer honest perspective with care.

Independent Peer Perspective Consultant

Jan 2008 - Present • 18 yrs 7 mos

Provide non-clinical conversation, thoughtful listening, and honest outside perspective for adults navigating relationships, boundaries, workplace dynamics, confidence, transitions, and difficult decisions. My approach draws from a psychology education, military leadership experience, professional analysis, and lived experience as a Black woman in demanding environments.

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Analyst

United States • Full-time

Jul 2003 - Nov 2013 • 10 yrs 4 mos

Served for 10 years in the United States Army in analysis, operational, leadership, and training roles. Developed strong skills in listening, evaluating complex situations, communicating directly, mentoring others, maintaining discretion, and functioning effectively under pressure