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I will listen without judgment and provide perspective if desired
About this Gig
No matter your pronouns, who you love, or how the world expects you to behave, you are welcome here. I offer LGBTQIA+-affirming conversation and a judgment-free space for men, women, and nonbinary people to say the quiet part out loud.
Sometimes you need to unpack a relationship, workplace dynamic, boundary, transition, or decision. Sometimes you need to confess the wild thing you didor talk through the even wilder thing you are considering. And sometimes you simply need someone in the passenger seat while you go on a mission. I get it.
I listen closely, ask useful questions, notice patterns, and offer candid perspective with care not a lecture or a verdict.
What I bring:
B.S. in Psychology and study in African American History
10 years of Army service
20 years in male-dominated tactical and corporate spaces
Lived perspective as a Black woman who understands power, code-switching, reinvention, and being the only one in the room
This is non-clinical conversation not therapy, counseling, crisis care, diagnosis, cybersecurity consulting, career coaching, or medical, legal, or financial advice. Sessions and messages remain on Fiverr.
FAQ
Is this therapy or counseling?
No. This is non-clinical conversation with an experienced listener and perspective partner. I do not diagnose, treat, provide crisis care, or represent myself as a licensed mental health professional.
What can we talk about?
Relationships, workplace dynamics, boundaries, identity, confidence, transitions, code-switching, difficult decisions, being the only one in the room—or the wild thing you did, are considering doing, or simply need to say out loud.
Is this an LGBTQIA+-affirming space?
Absolutely. All sexual orientations and gender identities are welcome. You can speak freely without having to defend, explain, or minimize who you are. I will respect your identity, pronouns, relationships, and lived experience.
Is this service for men?
Yes. Men deserve room to speak honestly without being mocked, lectured, or expected to have everything figured out. You can bring the thoughts, fears, questions, and feelings you may not feel comfortable sharing elsewhere.
What does “Ask a Black Woman” mean?
It describes the lived perspective I bring, not a claim that I speak for every Black woman. My perspective has been shaped by navigating military, tactical, corporate, academic, and personal spaces as a Black woman. Clients of every background are welcome.
Will you judge me or tell me what to do?
I am not here to shame you or run your life. I will listen closely, ask useful questions, and offer honest perspective—including angles that may be difficult to see from inside the situation. What you ultimately decide remains yours.
Do you offer cybersecurity or career consulting?
No. My technical credentials and professional experience help shape my analytical perspective, but this gig does not include cybersecurity services, technical advice, résumé services, or specialized career coaching.
How do sessions happen?
After you order, we will schedule through the order chat and meet using Fiverr’s in-platform calling feature. Your call can be audio-only if that feels more comfortable. Premium includes two separate calls because Fiverr limits individual calls to 60 minutes.
Can we discuss sensitive work situations?
Yes—but leave out classified, proprietary, legally protected, security-sensitive, and personally identifying information. We can discuss the people, pressure, choices, and dynamics without sharing operational details.
What if I need urgent mental health support?
This service is not crisis care. If you believe you may harm yourself or someone else, contact emergency services or a crisis resource in your country immediately. You deserve qualified, real-time support.
